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me on our solemnisation

WE ARE MARRIED!!!!!

02062007 our ROMM date. we are officially husband and wife. just waiting for reception on 17062007. its gonna be a real splendour for me....us....with the chocalate cupcakes and chocolate fountain....mmmm yummy slurps...slurps...all of u gotta be there k...

luv u guys...

resurrection

wow....its been 2 months since i last posted anything here...

what have i been up to? well, for a kick-start, i have a seriously overwhelming agenda this year. MY BIG DAY!
Yes, 17th June....Our long awaited wedding...

last sat, 5th of may, we had gone for the interview at ROMM (Registry of Muslim Marriages) with my dad. Dad told us abt the few experiences he had at the old ROMM during his young days for the marriages of his siblings. right aft that we met helmi & nina, the celebrity siblings who are working in the same company as hunny. they had to perform photo shoots for the 3 eligible bachelors for their magazines. hunny, nina, helmi and i were not very impressed with them. not only they came 1 hour too late, but they were very stiff and difficult to direct on how to pose for the magazines. hhhmmm....sumthing for me to ponder, how would hunny and i be for our wedding photoshoot?

then, later in the evening, hunny, his brothers and i watched spiderman 3 for the second time...hunny's dad got the tickets from his company and we got to watch the second one at no cost at all.....what a day..but i enjoyed my day spent with that kinda exciting agenda...with hunny gonna be my husband, my life is totally complete. hunny had been working hard all these while all for his family, for me...for us. that's what i look for in a husband, to care alot for his loved ones. simply can't wait to be wed...

double happiness

remember the entry about the 'newlyweds' dated 17th december 2006? well, hunny and i have been yearning to hangout with the 2 married couples to catch up after losing contact for quite awhile. i had this urge to text dian & zam asking how they were doing after the matrimonies last year. firstly, i texted dian. i teased her and asked when is the 'new person' in the family gonna be due...thinking they may not be planning to have kids at this moment.
lilltle that i know she is 2 months preggie! wow....that's really wonderful...i'm so elated to hear that...swiftly, i forwarded the news to hunny. he was as astonished as i was..

the very next second i texted zam and teased her with the same question...my heart was throbbing awaiting for the brilliant news....standing next to the traffic light enthralled, i was astounded yet again with another great news....zam is in her 3 months now....that very moment i texted hunny again and told him i wanted to meet these 2 mummies-to-be....dian said she missed us too....i earnestly wanted to organise a confluence of 3 wonderful couples to share our moments of being solemnised as legally wedded husbands and wives...i mean, hunny and i would have to go through that before we knew it.

so, vivo would be the place to dine and the plan is to crossover to sentosa and chillout at cafe del mar for our weekend extravangance. i really couldn't wait to embrace the 2 wonderful ladies....had known them for 5 to 6 years now? for all i know, they have become part of my life....and hunny's...

so, i'm definitely looking forward to this weekend. to celebrate the double happiness...

//...nuthing can be compared to a weekend with our luv ones...///

50 days old ryan ardiansyah

sue's & din's first offspring....what a cutie charmer!!




isn't he adorable? mmmm....melts.......such good looking baby...

counting down the days to the wedding

four more months to go....

leggings fad

hunny has been so nauseated by the leggings fad. he loathed especially those who do not really know what they were putting on themselves. though the long tuniques looked horribly disgusting on them, they thought it's fashionable. eeewww...c'mon!!!

i had told him last year it was becoming just a crazy fad. being in the fashion industry, the foremost style information is in our hands. advanced foresight on what's coming into the season or out of the season is our forte. not blowing my own trumpet, but most people around me says and knows that i have my own identity. never would i wear leggings just because everyone else is wearing it. they blatantly follow just about everyone else!

another heinous, atrocious mass fashion accessory is the thick waist belt fad. its not only competing with the WWF accessories on their torso, but also the traditional japanese with their kimonos. wear it the wrong way, you look like a comedian yourself. where are those days where everyone is unique? i know i am. hunny is proud of me and my innovations. always differ and stand out from the crowd. even sharon as the main buyer of our store announced so. unique as in the way i dress and portray my identity. play around with garments and create mileage to a simple tank or printed camisole or a long sleeve snug pullover.

how do i wear them? no...i do not wear them, i created and experimented them by adding mileage to what has already been unique....in fact ive done my very own flower corsages, accessories like earrings, chokers and rings...not forgetting ribbon belts and many others wonderful creations i hand sewn beads, sequins, ribbons and pearls on laces. viv de couture. hhhmmm...my very own collection...absolutely marvellous! splendid! much as i desire to start the business with eza, i do not have the time and materials at this very mmoment. as 100% of my energy is spent on my wedding plans. lots of work to do on my very own event. once in my whole lifetime.

so, meanwhile i am on my way to wear my own wedding gown. it's been such a long wait. worthwhile. we are extremely excited to be staying together as husband and wife. hhhmmmm.........honeymoon? to be confirmed....

///...wish me luck on my event planning...///

the time of my life

|| la senza ||

we had been shopping for apparels all over the city. hunny wanted to redeem the $30 nike voucher which he got from his dad. so, on saturday which happened to be our offdays, we went to vivocity, millenia walk, and then suntec city. he was ecstatic and beaming with his shopping, while i was still sullen as i had not really gotten anything yet at that moment the nike dri-fit brown zipper cardi was nowhere to be found. it was the most stylish nike apparel i ever saw, really snug and chic on me. the nike swosh was in metallic champagne gold. it was only like a hundred bucks. hunny said i could wear that for clubbing.

hence, hunny had a bright idea. he took me to 'la senza' lingerie boutique at suntec city. that subsided my gloominess. he was buying me some nice lingerie sets from there....i was eated when i tried them on. they had me feel so sexy and snug me to the skin. i luv all three of the bras! they are so luvly i asked hunny if i could have them all. he said, whatever that make me happy...he shall pay them for me. i luv my baybee! one of them was a turquoise sweetheart shape, another was a beige spring printed half cup and last but not least was a green palm printed half cup bra. definitely i had all the matching undies...hehee...all different styles. thong for the turquoise, boy briefs for the beige and g-string for the green....i am feeling so much more sexier in them...thanks to my luvly fiance...he was beginning to feel good about the retail therapy thingy. we had our 'rendezvous' to pamper ourselves yet again...


|| birthdays ||

last saturday was niza's birthday. today is mummy's birthday...but she had the celebration party at kimsia last night..all the staff came after work and i was the second batch group (hunny, me & ila). hunny took a cab and fetched me from paragon as i was carrying 6 baguettes and 2 aluminium trays for mummy.

we reached kimsia at 8.20pm and i saw there were only sherrrie and sha. as for the rest were all the friends, family or relatives, whom i have met before too...all the familiar faces. hunny and i got takashimaya vouchers for mummy. we were glad we had her something which she could use to buy all the things that she want from there.

|| superstar ||

so, we had dinner. bufffet was terrific, and i literally swallowed tonnes of 'ondeh-ondeh' sha had prepared for mummy....the usual 'clan' were sitting at the corridor while the boys were watching soccer...after singapore's victory battling with thailand, we watched the result for the superstar from channel u. Darren Tan was the winner. he is hunny's buddy from soccer when he was in school. hunny and i had aniticipated he will be the next superstar. he has the charisma and is very cute too...i like his dimples. hunny teared when darren was mentioning about his family and broke down. his talent is conspicuous. we are so proud of him. my colleagues even bet with another party that he would win. true enuf....hunny wanted to meet him this weekend. he sms darren, to catch up and congratulate him. nice guy....

|| honeymoon ||

we had our weekend anniversary honeymoon. hunny has been pampering me and treating me like his queen. whenever i amcraving to eat something, he bought for me. whenever i felt down, he paid for my retail therapy. whenever i needed a hug, he embraced me like a baby...gave me the warmth that i need...we are so luvin and the bond getting even much sturdier. i am not only his wife...he said, i am his best friend, his baybee, his lover, and his lifetime partner.

//...elated...that is what i am feeling right now...//

12th anniversary...

tomorrow marks our anniversary

and hunny has his own friendster account!

check out what his profile is...

• Volatile at best - Handle with care. Enjoying the BEST TIME of my life right now. Holding the bestest, mostest perfecto job doing 2 things i LOVE doing the most, design & sports. (To do the things you love doing and getting so much out of them, there are days when you wake up wondering, could your life be this good if you had chosen another path, be with another partner? I doubt so. I might never have gotten the same support as i got from my fiance and wife-to-be, my lurvly Vivi.) Sorry, i got carried away on that. I'm stubborn. That's how i achieved what i got today. Love it or hate it, this is me.
  

• :snatchcase - redux '78, apocalectro, verse 69, line 13.

• Who He Wants to Meet:
  

  Friends i've lost touch with, old school friends, new friends with same interests, friends of friends of friends. And i wanna meet my wife, if we are not so busy with work. Oh, Karen O from the yeah yeah yeahs.

enjoy!

new years's blessing

last year had been a great year for the both of us...hun and me....

however, this year so far has been thousand times better....tonnes....loads....

we have been shopping even on the early december, lots.....although we do save a fraction of our earnings at the same time in another bank account....i have gotten 2 pairs of nike footwear from hunny...one black yoga trainers for work, very stylish...very comfy...and nike free, white with red and grey lines on em, minimalist...just like prada...for running or casual day out. both from hunny. i lurve them to death!!!

ive got also some really nice pullovers and tops, a new ALDO wallet, in creme...gstar black jeans, Armani jacket, a pair of wedges (first one by the way! lol). i was walking and dancing fine in em as its not like any normal wedges, its vertically thin wedge in denim and covered toes. it matched a retro printed long sleeves woolen dress (which i bought at the brink of time to wear on the cruise for our company's dinner on dec 29th 2006). other than that i've gotten myself the marithe francois girbaud jeans which i've been itching to get from my workplace for ages....finally...tops? oh, u tell me...agnes b, what else? mmm....i have been all smiles...

well, as for hunny...he had bought himself the whole store of nike...hahaha! he's gotten a nike free too, in grey and white combination. socks to match, shorts, tees (let me see, how many tees? 6? 8? lost count...) not forgetting a mambo backpack for his ibook (our ibaby now)...from i21 at orchard cineleisure.

we went berserk shoppin for stuffs....haha...

well, more shopping to do for our dowry gifts next mth onwards....gotta get prepared from now...

class dedications

as i was reading up more on the wedding magazines, i had this urge to send dedications on class 95 so i sms yaz, the DJ....it was impromptu...just after hunny expressed his desire to become my lawful husband....i was elated and it leads to this...

"goin out to my luv, Redz..I can't wait to be your wifey too...it's amazing how we withstood 11yrs worth of roller coaster in this relationship. a decade had past, many more decades from now n till i breathe my last, i will luv always..."

Yaz replied...
Hey Viv..read your dedications earlier on Love Songs! Hope you guys enjoyed the song! :) Yaz

hunny thanked the deejay for giving us hope & luck..many more years of luv

to our astonishment, then came this song...

we were feeling nostalgic cos that was the first song hunny dedicated and sang to me when we first fought after a few months of dating...from boyz to men..that was a decade ago...


On Bended Knee

Darlin' I can't explain
Where did we lose our way
Girl it's drivin' me insane
And I know I just need one more chance
To prove my love to you
If you come back to me
I'll guarantee
That I'll never let you go

Can we go back to the days our love was strong
Can you tell me how a perfect love goes wrong
Can somebody tell me how you get things back
The way they use to be
Oh God give me a reason
I'm down on bended knee

I'll never walk again until you come back to me
I'm down on bended knee

So many nights I dream of you
Holding my pillow tight
I know I don't need to be alone
When I open up my eyes
To face reality
Every moment without you
It seems like eternity
I'm begging you, begging you come back to me

Can we go back to the days our love was strong
Can you tell me how a perfect love goes wrong
Can somebody tell me how you get things back
The way they use to be
Oh God give me a reason
I'm down on bended knee
I'll never walk again until you come back to me
I'm down on bended knee

Gonna swallow my pride
Say I'm sorry
Stop pointing fingers the blame is on me
I want a new life
And I want it with you
If you feel the same
Don't ever let it go
You gotta believe in the spirit of love
It can heal all things
We won't hurt any more
No I don't believe our love's terminal
I'm down on my knees begging you please
Come home

Can we go back to the days our love was strong
Can you tell me how a perfect love goes wrong
Can somebody tell me how you get things back
The way they use to be
Oh God give me a reason

I'm down on bended knee
I'll never walk again until you come back to me
I'm down on bended knee

Wanna build a new life
Just you and me
Gonna make you my wife
Raise a family

newly weds

all the best to the newly weds

||...nasrul & dian....and nazhan & zam...||...17th december 2006...||

the luv of my life crashed at my place on friday nite after our movie date with jd and sharon which ended at 3am. we were chilling out at my place the whole day until 7pm. hunny and i managed to attend nasrul's and dian's wedding last nite at jurong east. the objective of goin there was to just watch how happy they were on the stage. the settings, it was impeccably spectacular..impressive...with the chandelier lights on the stage and structural metal frames coiled with flowers....i was amazed with dian looking so gorgeous, stunning and composed in her white bridal gown.

one of the event that moved me to tears was when nas gave a speech on how dian had made his life complete. and dian had also expressed how lucky she was to be his wife. an emotional moment hit my senses...my face was burning red...my eyes were welling up a bucket of tears...my body felt weak. gracefully, hunny turned to me and held me close to him, feeling my sentiments. he understood how it might have affected me in a way that i would be exactly in the same position as dian. hunny told me he couldn't wait to be my hubby. we have to plan carefully what we wanna say for our speech, wedding vows. it would have to be a seperate wedding reception from the relatives'. hunny and i are planning to throw a dinner with our close friends which would be by the beach and everyone can be casually clad or even dress up if they desire to. it would be one of the best wedding event of the year, i hope...

close up?

as i was trying to check on my profiles on which looks better, i had these few shots taken of me...hehe...

i guess this is the best shot, with me in my vintage denim motorcycle jacket....lookin serious yet candid?

that was taken at the vivocity washroom when i met hunny last friday. we were so amazed by the humungous size of vivo. hunny is planning to take me there for new year's eve to chill out. and celebrate our anniversary on the 1st.

we are left with 6 more months before the wedding bells ...the nearer we are towards the new year, the anxious i become....hunny told me he couldn't wait to be my hubby....

our haven, our abode

after our wedding, hunny is staying with my family for awhile before we purchase our own flat, our haven. well, he is my family soon. so, for now we are planning for an overhaul makeover for my room...our room. it's gotta be tech & fashion savvy, with LCD TV monitor and xbox 360. all white & black...while our lounge area will be near the window.

our private chamber is gonna be the best we could ever ask for...the cosy atmosphere for us to look forward to after a long day at work...hhhmmm....our haven....

//...more planning to do..//